To rebuild your self esteem, your sense of self worth must come from God, and He must be your first source of life, love and value.

Only God’s love can keep you going through the storms and trials of life. If you’ve accepted Christ as your saviour, you are God’s daughter; holy precious and beloved in His sight (read Ephesians 1 & 2, and 1st John 4.)

He will never betray you or let your down, as other broken people will. When you’ve accepted God’s love and He is first in your life. If God is first, when your husband struggles your self esteem won’t take a big hit because you’ll see your husband as a broken clay pot in need of grace, not the “everything” that your life depends on.

If God is first, you’ll have an easier time coming along side your husband in the battle.